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    有人认为: 结婚, 对于一个男人来说, 失去了自由. 佛曰: 爱即是舍得. 舍得? 大象无形, 大音希声, 大爱就是放吧, 放走自由, 放开手里紧紧攥着的东西, 让它们如细沙般, 流水样地从指缝中消逝. 于是要淡定, 要恬然, 要学会舍, 才会有得. 愚认为世间万物都是守恒的, 能量是守恒的, 苦与乐是守恒的, 舍与得也是守恒的.

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<p><span style="color: #000000;">    一份爱情, 跨越了浩瀚的渤海湾, 历经了5个春秋的爱情马拉松终于修得正果, 绽放于  浪漫之都大连. 虽说历经了5年那么长久, 但一切又是那么突然, 我好像还没有准备好, 就步入了婚姻的殿堂…… ^_^窃喜……</span><span style="color: #000000;"><br />
    有人认为: 结婚, 对于一个男人来说, 失去了自由. 佛曰: 爱即是舍得. 舍得? 大象无形, 大音希声, 大爱就是放吧, 放走自由, 放开手里紧紧攥着的东西, 让它们如细沙般, 流水样地从指缝中消逝. 于是要淡定, 要恬然, 要学会舍, 才会有得. 愚认为世间万物都是守恒的, 能量是守恒的, 苦与乐是守恒的, 舍与得也是守恒的.<br />
    于是公元2008年10月04日, 我典当了一点点自由来换取城中一生的幸福.</span><span style="color: #000000;"> </p>
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一份爱情, 跨越了浩瀚的渤海湾, 历经了5个春秋的爱情马拉松终于修得正果, 绽放于浪漫之都大连. 虽说历经了5年那么长久, 但一切又是那么突然, 我好像还没有准备好, 就步入了婚姻的殿堂…… ^_^窃喜……

有人认为: 结婚, 对于一个男人来说, 失去了自由. 佛曰: 爱即是舍得. 舍得? 大象无形, 大音希声, 大爱就是放吧, 放走自由, 放开手里紧紧攥着的东西, 让它们如细沙般, 流水样地从指缝中消逝. 于是要淡定, 要恬然, 要学会舍, 才会有得. 愚认为世间万物都是守恒的, 能量是守恒的, 苦与乐是守恒的, 舍与得也是守恒的.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>    公司杂志约稿, 要求写个告别单身的告白, 再给发几张婚纱照, 于是乎一个上午都忙活这个了. 憋出这么几个字, 呵呵. 有人看了竟然还不相信是我写的. 太瞧不起人了&#8230;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">一份爱情</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">跨越了浩瀚的渤海湾</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">历经了</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">5</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">个春秋的爱情马拉松终于修得正果</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">绽放于浪漫之都大连</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">. </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">虽说历经了</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">5</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">年那么长久</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">但一切又是那么突然</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">我好像还没有准备好</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">就步入了婚姻的殿堂</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">…… ^_^</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">窃喜</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">……</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">有人认为</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">: </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">结婚</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">对于一个男人来说</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">失去了自由</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">. </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">佛曰</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">: </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">爱即是舍得</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">. </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">舍得</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">? </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">大象无形</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">大音希声</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">大爱就是放吧</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">放走自由</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">放开手里紧紧攥着的东西</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">让它们如细沙般</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">流水样地从指缝中消逝</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">. </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">于是要淡定</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">要恬然</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">要学会舍</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">才会有得</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">. </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">愚认为世间万物都是守恒的</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">能量是守恒的</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">苦与乐是守恒的</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">舍与得也是守恒的</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">于是公元</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">2008</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">年</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">10</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">月</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">04</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">日</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">, </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">我典当了一点点自由来换取城中一生的幸福</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-size: 9pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">.</span></span></p>
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